Don't let the holiday blues get you down

Is it a case of the holiday blues or the start of major depression? Here's how to deal with it.

By Nancy White

I’ll have a blue Christmas without you,

I’ll be so blue just thinking about you.

Elvis Presley aside, the holiday blues are nothing to sing about.

For many the holidays are not a time of cheer, but of dread, exhaustion and even depression.

The symptoms are similar to those of severe depression, the difference being that holiday blues tend to come and go with the season. Look for a lack of interest in usually pleasant activities, sleep disturbances, appetite changes, agitation, anxiety, feelings of guilt or difficulty in concentrating.

The causes may be loneliness from loss of loved ones, a hectic pace of shopping,
entertaining and decorating that leads to exhaustion, strained family dynamics
that make get-togethers want-to-avoids, or the financial worries that result from
overspending. There can be physical causes, the draggy feeling from consuming
too much alcohol, indulging in too many sweets and skipping exercise. Not to
mention the psychological effects of shorter days and daylight.

Don’t let the holiday blues get you down. There are ways to cope.  Here are a few:

 -- Keep your expectations modest. Don’t fall into a trap of what holidays are supposed to be or how you are supposed to feel.

--If traditional activities are a cause for dread, do something different this year.

--Pace yourself. Forget the unimportant stuff. So what if all the decorations don’t
get put up? Skip a party if you’d rather not.

--If you are lonely, try volunteering some time to help others.

--Avoid the blahs with a walk to reduce stress, a glass or two less of alcohol, and only a nibble of the goodies that produce sugar highs.

--Keep track of spending. Post-holiday bills can be a real downer.

--Avoid the scrooges and grinches – try to spend time with positive people.

--Don’t compare past and current holidays. When you compare, you despair.

--Be careful about resentments related to holidays past. Declare an amnesty with a relative or friend over frictions of the past.

--Take a breather and make time for yourself.

White, a registered nurse with a master’s in public health, is general manager of advocacy programs for McGregor and Associates of San Diego.


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Charles December 06, 2012 at 04:01 PM
Look forward to December 26th because all the BS will finally be over.


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